Try to invalidate quad cache when shadow is changed

Summary:
213239a0 tried to address the case when
a wayland client gets shadow after it was mapped, but because of poor
testing from my side, another bug was introduced. If a decoration tooltip
or the user actions popup is shown, then in some cases it can be blank.

Usually, SurfaceInterface::shadowChanged proceeds SurfaceInterface::sizeChanged,
so when the shadow is installed, window quads cache is rebuilt. But
because shell client already knows the geometry of the internal client,
goemetryShapeChanged is not emitted, thus the cache is not updated.

It would be better just to invalidate the cache when the shadow is
installed, uninstalled, or updated. This reduces the number of
unnecessary invocations of Scene::Window::buildQuads and also moves
handling of the window quads cache away from the Shadow class.

BUG: 399490
FIXED-IN: 5.15.0

Test Plan: Decoration tooltips are no longer blank.

Reviewers: #kwin, davidedmundson

Reviewed By: #kwin, davidedmundson

Subscribers: davidedmundson, graesslin, kwin

Tags: #kwin

Differential Revision: https://phabricator.kde.org/D17215