Add time and time zone to EXDATEs of DATE-TIME instances

The incidence editor creates DATE values for exceptions to recurring
instances, even if the incidence is not "all day" (i.e. DTSTART is a
DATE-TIME value).  EXDATE identifies a specific instance and arguably
should follow the same rules as RECURRENCE-ID.  RFC 5545 does not say
so, but [erratum 6316](https://www.rfc-editor.org/errata/eid6316) does.
In practice, other important systems reject EXDATEs that do not match
DTSTART.

Original patch written by Jochen.Trumpf@anu.edu.au.

BUG: 169336
BUG: 434559
FIXED-IN: 5.17.0